Things fall apart so that other things can fall together.

Now that I’m focused on myself and I’m finally putting down the work to reach the goals and dreams of my heart, I’ve realized how happy I am that things ended up the way they did between us (p).

Today I’m working on my CV and applying for a job that I want, a very exciting job for an International company in Sweden. I’m also working on the articles that I want to publish for the help organizations website.

It’s interesting that when you are with someone (dating) and the relationship isn’t good, you rather focus on making it work than actually letting it go. Blind sighted as you are, you keep pushing at it. Working at it and mostly on your behalf, making up adjustments and compromising to things you know you would never have done before. Worst of all is that these type of guys make you actually question yourself, ‘maybe this is what love and relationships are really like’? Maybe I was wrong?

Even after all that work, things still ended and when it ends you find yourself upset and with hopeless thoughts, like there wouldn’t be any other man out there and you just can’t seem to understand the reason for all that pain at that exact time.

 Today I am filled with happiness because I’m doing the things that I want and I realize that I would never have come to this point here and doing these things if I was still with him.  I would never been able to focus on myself and the things that I want for my life. So it makes sense to me now that things fall apart so that other things can fall together.